4 months

On one hand it's hard to believe that Harli has been part of our family for four months and on the other hand it seems like she has always been with us.

She has had so many firsts already; several family birthday's (including her own), Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas and the New Year.  She loves going to preschool!

She has also started working with a speech therapist as her speaking is coming slow.  We still don't know why she wasn't speaking Chinese, we suspect that it's just that no one ever encouraged her to talk or maybe she was confused since many languages are spoke in the area she is from.  Regardless, she can say about 20 words and is starting to use them on her own without us prompting her.

We have had fun watching Harli's personality blossom......she's become quite sassy and she is SO silly!  She holds her own with all of our boys!  She is so full of love and life.  She is usually very happy, although the  lack of communication still causes some meltdowns.

You can tell for sure when an adopted child feels comfortable.  She will come wake us up at night if she needs to go potty, she has started to get into and investigate everything.  We've had not one, but TWO times now that she has cut her hair with kid scissors....someday she will have a cute little bob!  : )  We've had many episodes where she has used markers to color ALL over herself - thank goodness I only allow washable markers!  She loves to watch her big sister put on make up and even decided to give herself a makeover one day and her big sisters comforter (yikes!).  Now, I know what you might be thinking - WHEN does she do all of this - I assure you that she is with us pretty much at all times.  She can be playing with a toy and 2-3 minutes later one of these events has taken place.  She is super sneaky and fast!!!

As for her medically, we did make another trip back to see the International Adoption Dr.  Although Harli had gained 3 pounds and 2 inches in height since we had been home - the Dr. was still worried about her height and why she is so small.  So, we had some x-rays and blood work.  They showed that she has had some periods where she stopped growing due to malnutrition.  Her blood work was good and shows that she is on the right track now.  We'll just have to wait and see, hopefully she will continue to catch up over the next six months or so.  In February we will go back to see her Cardiologist and have a new echo.  She will also go for another follow up with the International Adoption Dr.

I was just thinking the other day how true it is that you grow an adopted child in your heart instead of your tummy.  I can honestly say that I don't feel like I missed out at all.  During the process you really do grow your child in your heart and when they hand you your child it's just like a delivery.  Trust me, the flight to China is about as bad as labor!!!  Ha, ha!  Seriously though, I know I am blessed to have been able to carry my biological children, but adoption is not second best - I can truly say that any way a child comes into your life is an amazing gift from God.

Her bib says it all

First tree she saw at the hospital for a test 

"I'm not touching the ornaments"

Waiting to get her blood taken at the Adoption Dr. 

Silly girl, one of many faces she did when I was trying get a picture of her smiling!!

One month & 4th birthday

Yesterday was Harli's 4th birthday and one month since she joined our family!  She is doing great.  She loved all the excitement of a birthday party, the presents, cake and ice cream.

When we first met Harli she didn't even know how to play with toys.  She had no clue what to do with a doll or play pots and pans.  Today she takes care of her babies and cooks a huge meal.  LOL        It's so amazing to see her transform into a child.  I know that sounds strange, but I'm guessing that my adoptive friends can relate to that.  We  could tell that she was expected to really take care of herself quite a bit or just had to entertain herself - looking at her hands, etc.  She is now getting to enjoy all of the new things in her world and just worry about having fun.

Praise Him

We went to see Harli's Cardiologist today.  She had an Echo & EKG to see exactly what we were dealing with.

When we accepted her referral we had two Echo reports that showed two holes in her heart - a ASD & VSD.  They had just completed the most recent Echo at the end of March, 2012.   We had two Cardiologists review the paperwork and they both said that she would most likely need open heart surgery due to one of the holes being next to the valve.  And, at her age it wasn't likely that the holes would close. One of our updates mentioned that she turns blue sometimes.  So, we were fully prepared to come home and possibly go straight to an open heart surgery.  I know this sounds scary, but we trusted our great and faithful God and knew that she was meant to be our daughter.  And, honestly Troy and I never really worried about this through the rest of the process, we felt at peace with whatever would come our way.

Here's what we found out today:

The ASD has completely closed!  Praise Him!  The VSD is in the process of closing, the Dr. can see the tissue growing to close the hole. Praise Him!  Even if it never completely closes the Dr. said that she shouldn't ever need surgery for it. Praise Him! We will go back in four months to have another Echo just to follow up.

We are elated and knew that this child was such a miracle!!!  Harli is doing amazing!  She seems to really enjoy her big family and is bonding well with all of us.

We know not all adoption stories are as great as ours, but people need to know that this really does happen.  Many families bring home children that end up healthy with no surgery.  Many families bring home children that need a minor surgery and then they are healthy.  If you are considering adoption, or want more information, please talk to us.  We are happy to share our story.  There is no reason that these children should be abandoned, live in an orphanage, etc.  We can do something to change the lives of these children.

Thank you to everyone who has prayed us through this journey.  We have felt your prayers!!

Now, our God, we give you thanks, and praise your glorious name.

1 Chronicles 29:13 

Guangzhou Day 5 & 6

Day 5

We really didn't do much on this day.  We packed our suitcases to get ready to head home.  We went across town to a store that someone told us about.  The store was okay, but trying to get a taxi back to the hotel was crazy!!  We had to stand on the road for about an hour trying to flag one down.  We would think we had one and other people would jump in it and it was scary.  That was the first time I actually was worried.  It was getting dark and fear started to take over a little.  Just then, a taxi pulled up and all was well.  Praise the Lord!!!

Day 6

We hauled all our luggage down to the lobby to meet our guide and off to the airport we went. The first flight was great.  We almost missed our second flight to Chicago.  I felt like we were in a movie, we had to run through the whole airport to make the second flight.  Somewhere at the first airport we lost our boarding passes for the second flight.  So, we had to go through security twice after our first flight AND get our boarding passes reprinted AND go across the whole airport (or that's what it felt like anyway).  We had the sweetest girl take us where we needed to go and she called ahead so they new we were on our way.  Cathay Pacific rocks!!  As we approached the gate it was flashing FINAL CALL!!!  Yikes, that was way too close.  There was 50 minutes between flights, but really only 25 from landing to final call to board flight #2.  But, we made it!!

More pictures?

Our China Doll

Bye Bye China!

Guangzhou Day 4

We went for our Consulate Appointment this morning.  Harli's Visa will be ready tomorrow afternoon and then we can fly home.  As soon as she touches the ground in Chicago she will be a US citizian!!  Yay!

We also went back to the island for some more shopping.  Found the squeaky shoes and stocked up on several pairs in different sizes for her to grow into!

Otherwise, we have just been hanging out in our room taking it easy...

At the Consulate

On the island

Guangzhou Day 2 & 3

Day 2

We went to the Pearl & Jade Market to buy a few pieces.  After that we went to the Shamin Island to do a little shopping.  I think I paid too much for the items I purchased, but I found it difficult to negotiate the prices too much with the shops.  I couldn't find some of the items that I really wanted and we ran out of time.  So, we are going back on Tuesday.  Hopefully that will be a better experience!!

Day 3

We went back to the medical clinic to have Harli's TB test checked.  She did just find and we knew there would be no issues because her arm didn't swell at all.

After that we went to the Safari Park.  It was awesome!!  Just wish that it was much cooler.
Here are some pics, I will post a video on FB.

Tomorrow (Tuesday) will be our Consulate Appointment.  That is where we will take the oath.  After that back to the island for shopping and some pictures of Harli with the statues, etc.

Miss you boys!!  Miss everyone - can't wait to get home with our best souvenir ever! Love you, XOXOXO.  : )

Guangzhou Day 1

We went for Harli's medical exam in the morning.  All went well, it wasn't as crazy as I expected.

After that we went to the Sun Yat-sen Memorial Hall.  To read more about it, you can go here -   http://www.travelchinaguide.com/attraction/guangdong/guangzhou/sun.htm

Then we came back to the hotel.  Hunter and Brooke went for a swim.  The hotel wanted to charge about $50 US dollars per extra person to swim so Troy and I just took Harli back to the room to play.

Later that night we went out and walked around the city.  We tried the Irish Pub for dinner, but most of us didn't like it very much.  So, back to Pizza Hut maybe.  LOL

Medical Exam

Love you boys!!  XOXOXO